Someone once asked...

“I am 15 with almost no friends and as i am growing the friends that I am with seem to have way different mindset than me and it feels like either i am looking at things in way too much depth or i don't know man i just feel lost from past few days”

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Someone answered with kindness...

I am 18. Friends are a very important part of our life as they stay with you, make us laugh, care for us, have fun with us, know us the best. Having friends is very nice but the type of friends you have also matter as even if think you will not get their bad habits , you will be influenced by them, you will pick habits without realising. Having friends will give you someone to open up to, depend on but never depend your happiness on them, don't feel lost bcz of them, find happiness in yourself, in small things. Being alone is also not bad even though after watching other friends group people might feel lonely, helpless, sad. We all are different people born in different situations, households, with different teachings etc so ofcourse we all will have different mindsets, values, perspectives but see if the mindset your friends have , is it good ? Or bad? Do you like their mindset? Like having people with different mindsets can help you see different perspectives but only if it's right. Every thing can be seen in various ways so. Let's think something else like if your friends love making fun of people for their lifestyle, parents job and other stuff they can't change then that's totally wrong and if they don't feel that boundaries need to be respected or make fun of other people etc then that's not right. Well let's think like that there is a situation like some incident and you see it differently and they see it differently and you both can be right also then it's fine. If you feel that their mindset is too different and you feel too lost and their mindset is not something you can deal with everyday then step back from these friendships. Wishing you well buddy.

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Another soul answered...

Hmmmm!! Seems like u in pain. With no frnd🤣🤣 what a looser blehh.. Umm sawry😭🙏 .. having no frnd don't make u alone or feel looser.. stay alone also is a powerful thing.. ok suppose you got ur favourite chocolate.. so it's ut better that ur alone u can have the whole chocolate.. u won't need to share it with anyone. And don't get lost dude .. when u will get success u can feel proud that u did it all by urself.. don't overthink it .. haha have a nice day 😊... see ya around

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Another soul answered...

It's okay to be different first of all and trust me you are going be all good just believe in yourself find people who match your vibe or maybe they can have different opinions or mindset but atleast they should respect you and your opinion and you have a whole life ahead soo slow down and just relax enjoy your own company you are the main character of your life you are not worthless I am proud of you trust yourself

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