I always compare myself to others even when I don't want to and it just takes away all the joys, feel like I am missing out on so many thngs while others are enjoying. I feel lonely, like everyone has siblings and cool friends to go out with but I don't and I just can't live alone forever

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I always compare myself to others even when I don't want to and it just takes away all the joys, feel like I am missing out on so many thngs while others are enjoying. I feel lonely, like everyone has  siblings and cool friends to go out with but I don't and I just can't live alone forever

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Before comparing ur self to anyone just think about all the things or blessings that u may have while others don't. 
Also if u r envious of something try to think of all the things they must've gone through to achieve that particular things. 
As for the fear of falling behind, everyone has their own timeline of success their success don't define your time just keep trying your day will come
And for siblings if u don't have any just look around there are my homeless kids my orphans in orphanages who are craving for someone's love and care u can try making a bond with them in this way u can create a mutual bond of respect and love

“I always compare myself to others even when I don't want to and it just takes away all the joys, feel like I am missing out on so many thngs while others are enjoying. I feel lonely, like everyone has siblings and cool friends to go out with but I don't and I just can't live alone forever”