Hy I need a help Abt this situation I have known a guy for 5 yrs now and I loved him very much but he was not interested in any commitment.the Main thing is we got physically intimate multiple times. I thought this would change him and he will have real feelings for me.now I got to know he was talking with multiple girls eventually all had feelings for him. I feel like a complete fool now I was very emotionally attached to him and never talked with any guys for 5 yrs pls help me.

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Hy I need a help Abt this situation I have known a guy for 5 yrs now and I loved him very much but he was not interested in any commitment.the Main thing is we got physically intimate multiple times. I thought this would change him and he will have real feelings for me.now I got to know he was talking with multiple girls eventually all had feelings for him. I feel like a  complete fool now I was very emotionally attached to him and never talked with any guys for 5 yrs pls help me.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

hiiii. so the thing is i have never been in a relationship before if u wanted to know. but as a well-wisher, i would just like to say that you should leave him. you dont know about your relationship dynamic from his perspective, so rather than stressing your life over someone who is clearly not giving u any signal, you should try to leave and focus on yourself. if he is talking to multiple girls simultaneously, he is most likely playing u. so ya. true love's foundation cannot be lust(what i feel) nor a lack of commitment. and i believe you fill find someone way better, who will adore you and love you. you have lots of love to give, and i hope you get a guy who has the same intentions. wishing you the best!!!!!