How to get over a guy after break up with he initiated and even after giving my all he left but we have the same friend group and it's my last year of college... So cutting him out means losing my time with my other friends . Ps. We made sure that our friends weren't made to pick sides. He was my first love and he was the one who persued me relentlessly in the starting and making me fall for him.... We dated for 7 months plus 1 month we were involved without titles..... Now it's been 1 more month of being exes

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How to get over a guy after break up with he initiated and even after giving my all he left but we have the same friend group and it's my last year of college... So cutting him out means losing my time with my other friends . Ps. We made sure that our friends weren't made to pick sides. He was my first love and he was the one who persued me relentlessly in the starting and making me fall for him.... We dated for 7 months  plus 1 month we were involved without titles..... Now it's been 1 more month of being exes

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I am so sorry that this happened to you. I know it would be very difficult for you to face it on daily basis when you guys have same group. I would say that take small steps like try to ignore interactions with him, and take small steps moving away, give yourself time to grieve and be sad when u are, cry everything out and try to move on. bcz, everything happens for a reason, maybe he wasnt the one for u, or maybe u are protected from something hidden. LET IT GO! Every person that comes into ur life have a purpose to serve , maybe for a lesson, to bring a version of u even u dont  know or maybe to teach u something so, trust the process, and even now when u r facing all this maybe there is a reason for this, and good things are awaiting for you. JUST TRUST THE PROCESS!