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Growing up I thought falling in love would be something grand. Butterflies in my tummy and everything beautiful and pink. I felt those things when I was in my early twenties and it was fun. Now that I a bit older I have come to a realisation that falling in love or falling for someone is not something I would like to do. Now that I have found someone who I can spend my life with love is so simple. Direct answer to your question I have learnt to love myself more. Be myself and not to lose my spark. My partner loves me for who I am and I love him for who he is. We don’t try to change one another. There’s a sense of calmness a sense of home. There’s mutual trust and respect. Love is simple, calm, beautiful and the feeling of being home.
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I think love is a rather difficult thing to define because it rarely announces itself. Sometimes it arrives quietly, disguised as familiarity, and sometimes it takes you years to recognise what it was. But perhaps the difference between liking someone and loving them lies in what remains when the initial excitement settles. Liking someone might make you look forward to their messages, admire their presence, or find yourself smiling at the thought of them. Love, however, begins to extend beyond the pleasure they bring you. You become interested in the person beyond what they mean to you. Their thoughts, their fears, their ordinary little habits, the things they struggle to articulate. You want to understand them, not simply be understood by them. And I think there's something particularly beautiful about the way love makes room for another person's humanity. You begin to realise that they are not an idea you've fallen for, nor a character you've constructed in your head. They are a whole person, with imperfections, contradictions and a life that exists beyond your own. But please remember, love isn't measured by how much you suffer, how long you wait, or how much of yourself you're willing to sacrifice. You don't have to lose yourself to prove that you've found someone worth loving. Perhaps you know you're in love when you no longer love merely the way someone makes you feel, but begin to cherish the person they are, even outside the moments they make you feel loved. And sometimes the loveliest part is that love should leave room for you, too. But at times allowing yourself to get lost in it might just be the one of the most beautifulest thing out there. Hope this helps. With love, may you find love darling.
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When you like someone you will think about them often, but when you are in love they will come up very often. You may feel shame doing things weird or embarrassing because you feel like they might somehow be watching you.
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When u imagine a random person as ur loved or missed person
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You won't ask these questions.....one day you will wake and realise
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