“How do you detach from someone you're very very attached to
She is your best friend
She used to have feelings for you and never told you about it and later you developed feelings for her and she lost feelings for you that time and then later you kept being persistent and got sooo attached but she keeps hurting you and she never realises how poorly she treats me.
I don't have feelings for her now but I am super super attached and I can't make myself go through this attachment
Cutting off is not an option
And it's not only her
In most of my friendships I feel like I am the only one who puts in efforts alot
Not all, but most of them
I feel like an alien
I've never been anyone first choice
I've never been chosen
I hardly recieve reciprocation”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Hey hey ik how that feels like .. but u have to put efforts uptil a certain point only ... If the person is not treating u properly and ur hurting then what's the point of that bond?? And really if ur hurting then confront her abt it if she really is ur bestfriend shel understand that and change her behaviour if she doesn't then uk it isn't right for you . Sometimes we go above nd beyond for everyone but they don't do the sem cuz that's maybe not their style to showing love for you .. you can't expect the same from the them really .. ik this cuz I do the sem