“How do you allow yourself to finally be selfish and focus on your life and accept the fact that your parents can take care of themselves. they are in their 40-50s and how do i stop thinking about how i am losing my precious time with them by living in abroad away from them? my father wants me to be in abroad to work and earn but i have this guilt and fear. I am a single child who has had a childhood where i could never be a child. I can't talk to my mother because she has some psychological issues (mild in a way she overthinks things in ways no normal person could) that doesn't allow me much space to speak out my heart. I have always had to deal with everything since childhood and now i have finally a life where i don't have to worry about the house all the time, i am very anxious. sometimes i can't breath. i am so scared of losing time and losing only people i have”
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Someone answered with kindness...
“why after 25life hits harder where i am not liking to talk to frnds family no one just myself ,searching the purpose of life depression, family pressure marriage pressure , unemployement , waiting longer for career anixety etc”