how do we stop being boring? whenever I talk to someone in clg, they don't pay much attention to whatever I'm saying, I feel like ppl don't like me as much... but idk, people would always prefer the company of other ppl instead of me, they would sometimes insult me and I'm not able to say anything. I wanna make new friends, how do we do that? I don't wna be boring and an NPC, how do I make conversations more interactive and fun for others... thankyou

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Well... First and foremost, dont butt in to any conversation and only talk when u feel like it's necessary or talk if you're highly involved in that conversation. To be more interesting I think you need to be educated on whatever random topics and educate yourself about the current affairs and pop culture or whatever topics might seem interesting to you and you gotta differ who you're gonna have a deep conversation and who you're gonna have small talk with, cuz some people find small talks interesting and surface level stuff while other group of people find deep conversations interesting. Another thing is u gotta be interested in gossip(if u dont like it then pretend u like it) and seem interested in it or say some gossip(could be anything but tone it down a little)