Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
A student once told me she felt like she was losing a race no one else knew they were running. I told her that was exactly right — because the race didn't exist outside her own head. You're not actually comparing your life to theirs. You're comparing your behind-the-scenes to their highlight reel, edited, filtered, and missing everything they haven't chosen to show. It's not a fair fight, because it was never a real one. Close the tab. Look at your own hands instead.