Someone once asked...

“How do I start over when I don't know who I am anymore?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

A monk who had left behind an entire former career once told me the hardest part wasn't the new robes — it was not knowing how to answer "so, what do you do?" at gatherings. I told him he was asking the wrong question. He didn't need to know who he was. He needed to notice who he was becoming, one ordinary choice at a time. Identity isn't a fact you recover, like a lost passport. It's a pattern that reveals itself through what you keep choosing, especially when no one's watching. You don't need the full answer before you start. The starting is how the answer gets built.

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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet

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Another soul answered...

just tell your family you love them and that you ll be away for awhile, get 4 months worth of salary in your pocket before doing any tyope of move, leave the country and go to a place you like, work there, refind yourself, if it doesnt work, you can always come back with the emergency money, if it does, enjoy your new life and personality, hope you make it

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Another soul answered...

Find something that you love and think a lot like a lot a lot

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Another soul answered...

By disregarding any outsider thoughts. Focus on you.

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