How do I move on from someone I really like? He has wronged me many times but I've been patient and now he doesn't want this anymore and here I am stuck, I'm scared to face this. I'm scared I'll never stop liking him. I am scared this is over fr this time. I'm scared he doesn't care and he already moved on. How do I live with this feeling? I find him really really extraordinary. The whole thing makes me feel v less and unwanted. I have forgotten to see myself on the pedestal. It's really hard to let this one go. But he already did. I'm yapping. I am sorry if anybody is in a similar situation as me. This sucks.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

My suggestion is to talk about it with ur people as much as u can and as many times as u need to. I know advices like it's god's plan and time heals everything are cliches. I am going through something similar. One of my close friends on whom I had a crush since college ended our friendship and I didn't know how to react so I stayed silent when all I needed to do was to try one more time. Maybe he is also scared to contact again and u can take the step and try one last time. It's important to know that there are no wrong answers here and u can make one genuine attempt at telling him ur expectations and desires and if he's not willing u can make peace with the fact that universe has planned something better for u.

I am in the same situation and it's very difficult for me to give u an advice on what's the correct way to do. But just sit with urself and ur gut and heart will tell u what needs to be done. How do u know if he has already moved on and if he has moved on then are u sure that's the kind of person u want?