Someone once asked...

“How do I move on from someone i loved but they hurted me so badly that I don't know if I can ever heal again, like I want to move on but I can't move on, it feels like if I move on then I will lost the last memory of them...so yeah, how do I move on?”

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

Moving on is never easy. Believe me when I tell you so because somewhere or the other your brain shows you signs or memories related to that person and then you just sit there and think of all the happy memories you had but you need to remember that the same person whom you thought loved you had hurted you very badly. Bad enough that it takes lot of time to heal. But eventually as life moves on you'll forget about that person and then just laugh at that memory.

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Another soul answered...

Anything that hurts a wonderful soul like you doesn't deserve a heartbreak and that person does not deserve you and your love. Choose yourself, be firm and you know what?? You are one piece, built different my friend.... You should not worry about someone who hurts so that much. See, some chapters close and you should let them go because you have something beyond your thoughts better written for you. If you wanna know.... I loved a guy for 10 years from my school days till last year. We don't live in the same city, no contact, nothing! I loved him for the memories he gave me. One sided effort isn't love dear.... You just holding onto them like I did. Once I realized what I was doing and thought... Wait!!!!! This guy doesn't deserve someone like me who loves him even in his absence from 10 years. After months I met my man who cares, notices, appreciates, understands, encourages me and moreover he puts that effort into our relationship.... Never misses something that truly matter to me. He is the calmest, best guy I have ever met. Then once again I realized.... Yeah this kind of love I deserve not something like a pot that has holes where we pour water called efforts that go in vain like water goes out of the pot. I'm sure you can let them go and will definitely love yourself anddddd someone will definitely come for you like my man came for me into my life. You know what again??? Our connection was very random.... Two languages, long distance yet near to heart always. First love yourself so hard that you don't see anyone around that degrades or hurts you. Lots of loveeee from your sis and her partner, wishing a happy life and happiest you. ❤✌🤜

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Another soul answered...

I know it hurts to think that moving forward means leaving behind the last pieces of someone you once loved so deeply but memories aren't the only things that keep someone alive in your story. The person you became, the things you learned, the little moments that changed you those don't disappear please don't confuse holding on to the memories with holding on to the pain.

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