Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
I can't pretend that we always keep what we find everybody splits apart sometimes Living in the wake of overwhelming changes We've all become strangers Even to ourselves We just can't help We can't see from far away To know that every wave might not be the same But it's all a part of one big thing
Another soul answered...
Plan anyways, change plans when things go sideways, give yourself grace. Also maybe consider that your wasted effort can have useful side effects. I taught people to dance but failed to keep my dance scene alive. Does that mean my efforts learning and teaching dancing were wasted? Absolutely not. I met wonderful people who were able to learn from me and bring me joy and discovered new parts of myself.
Another soul answered...
I don't agree. Life can be successfully planned when the plans are realistic. That's like asking how to be comfortable with losing a finger. Don't stick your finger in the path of the blade and you will find great joy in the things you build.