“How do i gain the ability to lower my standards? It always seems to me like i am attractive enough to pull, but I js think it's not worth my time, when deep down I know that I want it.”

Another soul answered...

You already know you're attractive, and worth a certain standard. Don't change that standard just because nothing has happened yet. That's how you end up in really horrible situations and relationships. If you really want romance, you may want to be more proactive. Maybe join dating apps, or go out more. There are plenty of people who would reach your standards, and treat you incredible, so don't settle for the first person you see just because they're into you (unless, of course, they're really hot and cool and funny, of course). Good luck!