Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
Marcus Aurelius says “Choose not to be harmed, and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed, and you haven’t been.” Someone may have treated you poorly, but you only make things worse by ruminating on it, and allowing the harm to continue. Your partner may have cheated on you, but you still have your dignity, your physical health, and an opportunity to find someone new and have new experiences.
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Another soul answered...
You are not a victim you were victimised but that is not who you are. YOU ARE THE GOAT. Now make this world yours by not giving a flying fuck you are only a victim if you accept it as who you are.
Another soul answered...
you can not control what has happened to you in the past. I understand how awful it can feel to be a victim of something, the feeling of being played, attacked, manipulated... and having to accept that you got the short end isn't easy at al. There is nothing you can do about events or people who have hurt you, but you can reconcile with the fact that it happened. What is outside of your powers will stay outside of your powers and the things that you do have control over can only be adjusted to circumvent similar things from happening in the future. There isn't a single thing that i could tell you to do now to feel better or to improve your reaction to certain actions or situations. You have to find reconcile in yourself with what happened and that it is in the past. You will probably not feel oké or better after reading this, but that will come, maybe late, maybe soon. But after you think enough about what happened and accepted how it was, you will stand harder on your own barriers and be guarded from similar things.
Another soul answered...
the only thing that can save you from this is to just forget all that , start distracting yourself , the thing you feel of being a victim is not bad when you are actually a victim but it can affect your life and future relationships if you let that feeling keep affecting you even after you are no longer suffering from that. the peace you want to make with it can only be done when you will accept it and learn from it and move on , and to do that start prioritizing yourself , do meditation , learn to accept things that happened in past and try to move on from it .
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