“HOW AM I GOIGN TO BE A SINGLE MOM NOW? AND IM ONLY 5 MONTHS PREGNANT LIVING WITH MY PARENTS AFTER MY BOYFRIEND DUMPED ME AND IS NOT EVEN GOING TO HELP ME WITH THE BABY AND IM SERIOUSLY THINKING OF GETTING MY TUBES TIED SO I DONT HAVE BABIES OF SOME OTHER MAN IN THE FUTURE BECAUSE I ACTUALLY DONT WANT MY LOVE AND TIME TO ANOTHER BABY I JUST WANT TO LEAVE IN PEACE AND IM ONLY 23 YEARS OLD”
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Someone answered with kindness...
You know, what we don’t want today, we might want later – or the other way round… we see ourselves in the future as unchanging beings; the ‘me’ of a week, a month, a year or ten years from now will be just as I am now. No, you won’t be. Today’s choices may be tomorrow’s regrets, but you never know. We don’t always know how to tackle certain challenges, but then we look back and realise we’ve already overcome many of them.