“Hii... So basically think is that before coming into a relationship I used to like a guy I met in my college trip, imagine his name as metro and we become friends not that great but after coming back from college I realised in my second semester that one of his closest friend imagine his name is kitKat , used to care for me even in the first semester and I never know test used to appreciate things and there was few things also which were of like me scolding him in front of his father in the parents meeting as I am the class representative, but after few months like probably in February me and kit Kat had a 2 days chat in which he just asked me about myself more and he look the lot interested in knowing about what is my perspective about different things like college goals opinions everything then me which had a crush on metro started hanging out with him like just simply and which in that also I had to beg him basically after that in May kit Kat simply asked metro one day does me have a problem with kit Kat and me to clear out saying that it's nothing like that and he also said that him and me are just friends but it was more than friends obviously so I asked metro why do you always say that we are just friends and he was like they are like that only and then after 2 days of discussion and fighting just because of kit Kat we finally came into a relationship after 5 months of me continuously asking him and guess what kit Kat and metro went on a trip and on that trip kit Kat explained metro that if there is any problem with me or she is having any problem you need to clear it out and take care of her and don't let any rumours spread across the because she is the class representative and my boyfriend didn't even care that much after that in the second year we were dating and I that time kit Kat was completely ignoring me like my whole existence there was no talk no eye contact nothing as if he is angry from me after that months been passed and October came and I had a break up and after that because my boyfriend was not reading me right and he was not being attention to me or gifting me anything or taking care of with love nothing was there after like 15 days of my breakup I was like now I need to clear things out with kit Kat because I oncr told metro about everything and he didn't even care he said like it's nothing , so I followed him on social media and I was quite scared but he followed me back and since then in all of my stories his like is there and maybe two small smile in the corridor in college... But I don't understand his reaction about things, also at the same time my best friend wants me to interact with a guy of his boyfriend's friend and he is a nice person indeed but the thing is that now I have understood that the first person needs to be interested in me because this time I am not opening my heart that much last time I got hurt a lot so now I don't know what to do and who I need to give a chance and I need to clear things out with kit Kat and I don't know how to and from where to start one also now we all are going on a trip from college again this December my ex his friend KitKat and me are also included in it. Just help me giving a solution please”
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Someone answered with kindness...
it will be better if you initiate a conversation with KitKat instead of just assuming things, keep it light though. and about giving another guy a chance ? i think you should heal first and if you want to give him a chance then you can but without promising him anything. get to know him first and about the trip, enjoy there rather than worrying about those boys. also choose someone with their action like how they are towards you, cuz you know what you deserve... and please focus on your goals that's what matter the most in this age.