Someone once asked...

“Hi, so there's just one thing I've noticed about my life. Whatever I like the most seems to run away from me, while whatever I dislike keeps chasing me. For example, I don't like children, okay? But they absolutely love me. I don't know what they find so attractive about me, but they always want to be around me, play with me, and all that. But then there's this one guy I loved for four years. Four fucking years. And he never loved me back. Instead, he kept giving me mixed signals and all that shit. Eventually, I was done with everything. I was tired of running after someone who didn't feel the same way. And then, at that exact point in my life, God sent me another man who actually loved me. I was like, "Okay, bhai, please heal me." He was there for me, and eventually, I got attached to him. I finally started loving him, too. But just when I thought things were getting better, God snatched him away as well. Then there are my friends. I love them, and they love me back, too. But sometimes, they say things about me that genuinely hurt. Honestly, I don't even want to live around them anymore. Sometimes, I just want to disappear and start my life all over again. They say such horrible things about me, especially about my character. And they're always making fun of my looks. Bhai, what the fuck? Are you Kareena Kapoor or Hailey Bieber to be pointing out my appearance like that? I'm just done with all of it. And there are so many other situations, but I'm never able to share them with anyone. I'm scared they'll think I'm weak or that I'm just playing the victim card. I don't want people to see me as someone who is always crying about her problems. I'm not comfortable crying in front of people or opening up about everything I'm going through. I just can't. I can't. I can tell an AI, but I can't tell the people around me. I have friends who love me and share everything about their lives with me, but when it comes to my own thoughts and feelings, I just can't share them completely. And now, when I'm actually trying to distance myself from them, suddenly they're so attached to me. They show me so much love and act like they can't live without me. But bhai, just look at your actions, yaar! I don't want to be around you anymore. I know people are important, and they make life easier in so many ways. But I just want to forget certain people. I don't want to receive love from people whose actions have hurt me. I just want to disappear for a while and start over. And there's still so much more. But okay, we'll talk about that next time. Yaar, I don't even know anymore.”

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

Hey Unfortunately sometimes we are surrounded by people who makes us feel so alone and lonely And ik whatever I might say right now might be easier said than done But It is better to stay away alone than being with such friends who make you feel alone This world is a huge place and you will find people who genuinely value you but for that you need to make space by letting go of these people And even if you don't find good friends (worst case scenario) even then you have nothing to lose You anyway don't have great friends right now And yes when you tried to distance yourself they came back because the harsh reality is people value you when you leave and even they know what person you are so they don't want to let you go But remember someone else learning lessons or realisation is not your responsibility You are not here to teach anyone your value But to remember your own value and act on it Regarding love life... Well I relate because mine is also pretty messed up But if it helps you then always remember What is yours will always find you no matter what Sometimes we cling so tightly to one person or outcome that in process we forget everything around us We forget our own self So we just need to let things go at times And if that thing is ours it will find us no matter what like a frisbee And at the end of the day We need to hold ourself Everything else is temporary But that internal happiness is the most important thing We need to detach from the outcome in a way that if it happens good if it doesn't happen stil good and that is where change happens Very difficult but one day at a time Aur vaise bhi Kisi ko heera bhi kaanch lagta hai Kisi ko kaanch bhi heera lagta hai Sabko khush nahi karna hai Pas khud ko khush karna hai

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Another soul answered...

It's okay don't worry, I know this feeling kisiko kuch bata bhi nahi sakte aur bina bataye reh bhi nahi sakte , maybe you are longing for human connection, school mai naye dost banane ke barein me socha kya ? Wese ek bat mujhe kehni hai I'm proud of you ki atleast tumhe ye pata hai ki tumhare sath chal kya Raha hai , aur ye bhi ki tumne apni emotions be wajah control nahi kiya , Mere pass koi solution nahi hai par han ek suggestion hai apne emotions band mat Kara karo , agar confusion ho rahi hai kuch samajh nahi aa raha , likhna suru kardo , ya fir rone ka man kar raha hai toh ro do, par emotions ko band mat Kara karo thik hai ? Agar kabhi mind halka karna ho toh iss site pe karlo baki you are enough All the best for your life ahead 🫡

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Another soul answered...

alright, so for the first guy, i'd say, you can love people as much as they want, you can do things for them that you wouldn't even do for yourself, and in the end all of that would not make someone love you back, just like someone once said, 'you can be the prettiest sade of green, it won't matter if their favourite color is blur' or something like that. secondly, the guy who actually loved you, it can be rare to find someone at the exact point of time you really really need them, and you, my friend, lucked out on that part, but then of course it came to an end. you mentioned 'ok bhai please heal me', and sorry to go cliche here but relationships and other people can't heal you, you gotta do that for yourself. and i want you to know, no matter how much y'all loved each other, some relationships just don't work out and that's okay, as my good friend Zoe once said 'sometimes things have to fall apart to make space for better things'. and for the friends, honestly, if you genuinely feel like those friends are being mean to you on purpose, drop them. a friend is supposed to lift you up when you're down, not bring you further down, find better friends. and that brings me to the last point, being vulnerable to real people around you. it's scary i know, trust me, i've dealt w it. but you have to understand if you're not willing to show people your deepest and most vulnerable side, you can't expect a genuinely good friendship. you have to be a villager to have a village. anyway, id suggest you stop talking to ai about your feelings and slowly but surely find people you can actually trust and little by little let them into your weird little internal world.

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