Hi
So I am in a relationship with my boyfriend since 2 years 7months but I never felt like he loved me or loves me. Only once he got me pineapple juice when I was hungover at my friends apartment. That was the only day ever I think he thought of me as someone he loves. I told him this and he said I have told you several times that. Love you but you dint want to believe….idk I have never had me bothering something like this in life before. I am in conflict with myself that does he love me, or is the love there and I am blindsided by some think or that he doesn’t love me.

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Hi
So I am in a relationship with my boyfriend since 2 years 7months but I never felt like he loved me or loves me. Only once he got me pineapple juice when I was hungover at my friends apartment. That was the only day ever I think he thought of me as someone he loves. I told him this and he said I have told you  several times that. Love you but you dint want to believe….idk I have never had me bothering something like this in life before. I am in conflict with myself that does he love me, or is the love there and I am blindsided by some think or that he doesn’t love me.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

You must ask yourself, What does love like through your own eyes first to even begin to understand what love looks like through his. Focus on the little moments and cherish the time spent together. Actions always speak louder than words. Ask yourself first, why hearing it matters more than what he physically does for you.