Hi, my best friend confessed to me that he has feelings for me on my birthday night and I also told him how I felt(i also have feelings for him), now we both know that we love each other but our relationship still doesn’t have a name, if someone asks me what we are, i have no answer. We didn’t have a single conversation today and he texted me rn, i told him how im upset because of my mother’s behaviour and he js said yk how she is, don’t overthink, you’re js overthinking, and after that he said he’s going to bed, i agree someone can be tired or busy but I don’t think that you can be so busy that you don’t have a single moment to text the person you just confessed to or a moment to help them from the overthinking they’re going through. Honestly, it hurt

Now coming to my mom, it wasn’t my fault, not even a bit, she was mad at my younger sister and lashed out on me, said ill words about me and just blamed me for everything, when i asked her to clear things and whether she wants this shit to continue, she just didn’t repsond and the convo died. Tonight she threw a pot lid towards me, demanding me to wash it by tomorrow morning and argued again, she said I wasn’t important enough that someone would want to talk to me, that hurt tbh. Tomorrow, is 5th November, 6 days that I haven’t talked to her. Its peaceful like this but she still finds ways to argue and mess with my mental health. She’s already shamed me for having dinner that she cooked because apparently im not allowed to eat what shes cooked because im not talking to her. I barely eat already and now this is whats happening
Im writing just a bit of whats going on and whats in my heart because honestly, i don’t have enough words to describe what im going through🫠

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Hi, my best friend confessed to me that he has feelings for me on my birthday night and I also told him how I felt(i also have feelings for him), now we both know that we love each other but our relationship still doesn’t have a name, if someone asks me what we are, i have no answer. We didn’t have a single conversation today and he texted me rn, i told him how im upset because of my mother’s behaviour and he js said yk how she is, don’t overthink, you’re js overthinking, and after that he said he’s going to bed, i agree someone can be tired or busy but I don’t think that you can be so busy that you don’t have a single moment to text the person you just confessed to or a moment to help them from the overthinking they’re going through. Honestly, it hurt

Now coming to my mom, it wasn’t my fault, not even a bit, she was mad at my younger sister and lashed out on me, said ill words about me and just blamed me for everything, when i asked her to clear things and whether she wants this shit to continue, she just didn’t repsond and the convo died. Tonight she threw a pot lid towards me, demanding me to wash it by tomorrow morning and argued again, she said I wasn’t important enough that someone would want to talk to me, that hurt tbh. Tomorrow, is 5th November, 6 days that I haven’t talked to her. Its peaceful like this but she still finds ways to argue and mess with my mental health. She’s already shamed me for having dinner that she cooked because apparently im not allowed to eat what shes cooked because im not talking to her. I barely eat already and now this is whats happening 
Im writing just a bit of whats going on and whats in my heart because honestly, i don’t have enough words to describe what im going through🫠

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