Hi me n my best friend had a friendship breakup few months (3) back and she is already with a new girl doing exact things we used to do using my slangs n jokes and the things is that girl lives next to my room and when the other girl tries to behave pretty normal like she's pure that boils my blood. I also hate the fact that my bsf moved on really fast like our relationship was nothing to her I feel betrayed and heartbroken and she's having her time even though I was the one who kept that bond alive and pour my heart out I feel worthless .

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Hi me n my best friend had a friendship breakup few months (3) back and she is already with a new girl doing exact things we used to do using my slangs n jokes and the things is that girl lives next to my room and when the other girl tries to behave pretty normal like she's pure that boils my blood. I also hate the fact that my bsf moved on really fast like our relationship was nothing to her I feel betrayed and heartbroken and she's having her time even though I was the one who kept that bond alive and pour  my  heart out I feel worthless .

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Then she was not worthy of you. That’s it girl. Stop giving her your energy. It’s precious. Trust me when I say it..she never was your friend (coming from someone who has lost her best friend of two years just  because I called her out when she tried to belittle me). Friendships are meant to be double sided. And yours one seems like a one sided relationship. There are people waiting for you. You can make new friends and I know it’s hard to move on because seeing someone who shared a deep bond with you break your heart is kinda depressing. Just know there’s a stranger who wants you to be happy.