Someone once asked...

“Hi... I'm an 18 yrs old girl who was always fat shamed by her own family... I always feel like a burden to my parents... But also the invisible child of the family... I feel so insecure about my looks and body... Cuz whenever i look around myself, all i see is beautiful people with perfect body and confidence... I feel invisible or too much judged... I know people have their own lifes and don't watch us like we think they do... But still... I feel so scared and anxious... It's really hard for me... Sometimes i wish i was dead... Sometimes i wish i was never born... My parents say they have high expectations on me cuz I'm going to be the first female lawyer in my entire family... But look at me... I'm even scared to step out of my room... How am i gonna survive this?”

Someone answered with kindness...

Hey love. You are beautiful, don't ever doubt that. Being fat doesn't make any less than others. You know what? There are two types of obease One that is genetic and one that you can revert. So you can blame it on your parents if they try to say something 😜. And to raise your confidence, you should participate in some kind of activity like group activities, volunteering, gym or martial arts or boxing, any kind of sports. Trust me it will give you a different level of confidence boost. But try one step at a time. Like make small goals. Another thing you can start doing is recording yourself on camera. It might be awkward at first, but you'll become comfortable. You don't have to post them, just keep them on your phone. It will help you when you go out to socialize with others. And you know what? Being a lawyer is fucking cool. You're gonna be an amazing lawyer, I know. You just have to trust yourself and move forward one step at a time.

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