Someone once asked...

“hi, I recently got dumped by a guy who never really liked me at all but he acted so nice, he lied to be that he wants to be my bf but turns out he only wanted intimacy. The realisation only hit when it got over, I was so blind with all the dates and his nice behaviour. The feeling of knowing he loved someone else is eerie and it kills you alive.. he didn’t really care when I kept crying and begging him to come back..”

✦

Someone answered with kindness...

hi firtsly congratulations for getting out of this relationship secondly you don't need him to love yourself i know its really hard to realize earlier that only wants to be intimate wid us widout actually loving us its jus so sad for us...jus focus on yourself and see how beautiful life can get happy single life to you 🫂❤️🥰

✦

Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet

✦

Another soul answered...

Hey can totally relate to you... One thing i understood no matter how hard we try if they are not meant be part of our life .. The entire universe will make sure they won't be part of it ....if it belongs to you the universe will give it to you... at the end we can't force anyone to love us back that will be more messed up... Just know things will be getting better... All you have to do is to not give up on urself and keep loving urself...ik it's not that easy to forget things... That's totally normal just take ur own time but MAKE SURE TO COME BACK STRONGER