Someone once asked...

“hi i dont love my gf like i used too”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Ooof that sounds rough. I guess it depends if you feel that you can't find those loving feelings for her any more. Love takes work and its not an all the time feeling truth be told. It takes effort and understanding and it is not easy to love somebody constantly. They, like you, are an imperfect human being with flaws, who will grow and change many many times in her life, its whether you think you can find the little things you did love about them again? Try to remember what it was that you loved about her in the beginning? Maybe it was the way she would hum as she cooked dinner? Or maybe the way she would curl up to you at night to try and warm up? Or maybe she has a ridiculous laugh that you can't imagine living the rest of your life without hearing it again? Accepting your person has flaws is hard because sometimes they will annoy you to the point of disliking them a lot. But if at the end of the day she is a good person, that cares for you, that treats you well and wants to have adventures and live life with you, maybe its worth learning to love this person for who they are and who they may be in future?