Hi guys, so basically I'm an ambivert but with strangers i feel so stressed or like my brain doesn't function but at the same time, recently, i want to go out and meet people that are not in my circle. I went out solo in the club and felt very weird. So tips to like meet someone and maybe how to talk someone without feeling weird

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

i believe when u desperately wanna make new friends u put in efforts. Talking to strangers is awkward cs u may not have a common life but that doesn't mean that u can't think of nothing to talk ab. U should read the room, observe what people are discussing about, or could even make an effort to get to know what they been up to lately, talk about movies, smth u personally like, anything random. And u dont have to feel weird cs u cant think of anything worth discussing ab, what if the other person is thinking the same thing and is embarassed the same way you are.