Someone once asked...

“Hi gurlss I was wondering like how people consider dating with a people they meet?Like how to know them slowy? how to set healthy boundaries? I am seeing a guy I meet online It's only been two week though he said he likes me”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Don't rush into anything just because he says he likes you. Take your time getting to know him, observe whether his actions match his words, and don't feel pressured to share everything or commit too soon. Keep your own life, friends and boundaries intact. A healthy connection should feel safe, not rushed. And since you met online, be mindful of your privacy and meet only in a safe public place with someone you trust knowing where you are. Let consistency build trust, not just sweet words🤍

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Another soul answered...

the first thing I will say is: be careful with who you meet online. ensure they're exactly who they present themselves to be, and there is no decieving. if you can't meet them in person, maybe try to keep in touch with people they know? like a mutual friend or family member of theirs? also background checks on the internet never fail, so don't feel guilty to try that out. but in order to get to know the person more, I recommend having many open, honest discussions. bring up how you might feel a little insecure about meeting someone online and potentially being in a relationship with them. talking openly about these things, online relationship or not, is normal, healthy, and necessary. I wish you the best, and be safe!

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