Heyyy, i recently joined college and it was my toughest choice of my life . I had choice either I will go study in nich uni or in my hometown reputed clg and I choose my hometown clg. But all my frnd are now out of station attending clg and all. Look I am an introvert but it's not like I can't talk at all I tried my best to talk with people make new frnds but sometimes you come to know they are not really interested in you . But I still tried it's been 2 months now I don't call that people frnds they are just classmate i stay alone in clg . It may be like our company is peaceful and all but it hurts looking around everyone have someone with them to talk to or the bunch of friends living their best tennage life with each other. Hell it felt so lonely that's why I get home earlier but literally here beside my family there's no one to talk too . Abt my frnds I talk to them but it's just when I call or sometimes they does nothing else apart from that. So today my most precious one frnd came to hometown and I can't wait to see her and visited her house after clg . Look we are good and still special but when she told me she had someone to talk to online at night and she always does I don't know why it hurts me , like at night I wait for someone to msg me talk to me or even sent me reel and there's no one . Maybe i am thinking rational but that hurts mee . And I figured I had no one to hangout with anymore literally no one maybe i gonna celebrate my birthday alone with my family but not a single frnd and it hurts . My inner self felt so empty I wanted to cry everytime want someone to ask me if i am ok cause I am not a person to go and talk my heart out . And what worts even I send them reel they won't see it even they are online. That's the reason I am being quite most of the time and losing my mind and intrest in everything. I am being boring person now really boring maybe that's why not one wanna talk with mee. Just tell me it I am being rational?

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Heyyy, i recently joined college and it was my toughest choice of my life . I had choice either I will go study in nich uni or in my hometown reputed clg and I choose my hometown clg. But all my frnd are now out of station attending clg and all. Look I am an introvert but it's not like I can't talk at all I tried my best to talk with people make new frnds but sometimes you come to know they are not really interested in you . But I still tried it's been 2 months now I don't call that people frnds they are just classmate i stay alone in clg . It may be like our company is peaceful and all but it hurts looking around everyone have someone with them to talk to or the bunch of friends living their best tennage life with each other. Hell it felt so lonely that's why I get home earlier but literally here beside my family there's no one to talk too . Abt my frnds I talk to them but it's just when I call or sometimes they does nothing else apart from that. So today my most precious one frnd came to hometown and I can't wait to see her and visited her house after clg . Look we are good and still special but when she told me she had someone to talk to online at night and she always does  I don't know why it hurts me , like at night I wait for someone to msg me talk to me or even sent me reel and there's no one . Maybe i am thinking rational but that hurts mee . And I figured I had no one to hangout with anymore literally no one maybe i gonna celebrate my birthday alone with my family but not a single frnd and it hurts . My inner self felt so empty I wanted to cry everytime want someone to ask me if i am ok cause I am not a person to go and talk my heart out . And what worts even I send them reel they won't see it even they are online. That's the reason I am being quite most of the time and losing my mind and intrest in everything. I am being boring person now really boring maybe that's why not one wanna talk with mee. Just tell me it I am being rational?

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I totally understand you and it feels sometimes people don't value us like we do we make our life so attached to them that it's hard to detach from them this fast i don't what to say but please don't overthink it , it will make it worse don't just leave your friends but don't do so much from your side,coz that leads to expections I used be the same but now it better, just accept it's the way of life , and your life is precious!!! I would suggest try talking to people i know it's hard to be friends after being so introvert but that actually helps I hope it gets better and also try making hobbies it will definitely gonna help focus on your self more , take care of yourself and romanticizes life as much as you can .....i hope it gets better 🤗