Heyy monk!
So there is this guy I met online in some random intership gc and 4 other ppl clicked so we made a 5 member gc on WhatsApp first and later on insta (1 guy and 4 girls) it's been 3 months now
And 2 ppl left gc too that's a different issue
My problem is this guy and I we have this very rage baiter and rage baited type thing he is always teasing we are always bickering but we are like close too we do voice calls , he sings for me and tells me how his day went how he is feeling stressed and talks to me about his dreams interests and all he flirts tooooo much w me but also tells me I don't flirt w you seriously or tells me how I should stop talking to him cause one day if he is going to randomly leave I'll end up getting hurt and he is a Playboy and a red flag too honestly
Randomly ghosts too it happened 2 times but he came back this time he randomly left gc it's been 4 days I don't know if he is going to text me back or not also but I like this fucker everyone are telling me that I should never date him 😭 idk so if he texts me back what should I do? Also I don't know what he feels towards me he is always hot and cold w me gives me mixed signals like on vc he will tell I am thinking about how life will be w you but also tells me on the same vc he also tells me that I should just block him 🫩 I don't know what this man is even thinking like I can't make an explanation outta this whole situation is this is a situation ship or not I don't even have that idea
But sure asf he is different w me he doens't talk like this w other gc members but idk anymore him ghosting me and the other girl in our gc is soo bothering for me like I miss him what to do 😭

Question

Heyy monk! 
So there is this guy I met online in some random intership gc and 4 other ppl clicked so we made a 5 member gc on WhatsApp first and later on insta (1 guy and 4 girls) it's been 3 months now 
And 2 ppl left gc too that's a different issue 
My problem is this guy and I we have this very rage baiter and rage baited type thing he is always teasing we are always bickering but we are like close too we do voice calls , he sings for me and tells me how his day went how he is feeling stressed and talks to me about his dreams interests and all he flirts tooooo much w me but also tells me I don't flirt w you seriously or tells me how I should stop talking to him cause one day if he is going to randomly leave I'll end up getting hurt and he is a Playboy and a red flag too honestly 
Randomly ghosts too it happened 2 times but he came back this time he randomly left gc it's been 4 days I don't know if he is going to text me back or not also but I like this fucker everyone are telling me that I should never date him 😭 idk so if he texts me back what should I do? Also I don't know what he feels towards me he is always hot and cold w me gives me mixed signals like on vc he will tell I am thinking about how life will be w you but also tells me on the same vc he also tells me that I should just block him 🫩 I don't know what this man is even thinking like I can't make an explanation outta this whole situation is this is a situation ship or not I don't even have that idea 
But sure asf he is different w me he doens't talk like this w other gc members but idk anymore him ghosting me and the other girl in our gc is soo bothering for me like I miss him what to do 😭

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

bhai khud hi kue me kyu kud rahi h ? even tho you know all of his bad qualitites/he is a playboy and you will get played eventually ,still the more you pay attention/give attention the more you will get hurt later on .
he knows how to play/use smartly girls like you but yo u on the other hand kya hi bolu mai ab