“hey soo I have a crush on this guy and he knows. I confessed he was really understanding bout it though. umm we are friends since a month so lately it's me who is initiating the conversations but he isn't really online coz he studies so doesn't text me first but when I initiate a convo he is really good he comes up with topics and we talk late but I am feeling that I might get attached and decided to not talk to him like not initiate any convo he still acknowledges me whenever he sees me like he smiles and raises eyebrows i do same. gng what do ya think I mean should I initiate any further convo or just yk stay on what I have decided??.I am so confused like one minute I feel like I should but the next I am like he can talk too yk so what do I dooo?? oh and also he has a bday comin up, do you think I should give him a gift and just in case if you are wondering no he is not non chalant he used to text me first and reply in my snaps and all he is really emotional and understanding and does not judge me at all.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I think you should give him time and to you too. Let's just step back from love and relationship. Focus on friendship cuz from what I read i clearly understand that he thinks you as a good friend. Guess what? A GOOD FRIEND IS RARE. so, better not think about if he loves you or not and concentrate on precious friendship. Happy birthday to him. About the gift it depends on you. If you think giving him a gift will weaken you & controls your mind to think that you're falling harder for him then step back. Your mental health matters the most. Take care