Hey, so I just wanted to clear something from my mind cuz I have no one else to talk abt it. It was 3 years ago. I have not forgotten even one sec of it. I had a crush on one my classmate. I was new to the class. He was actually pretty famous and a lot of girls I mean LOT had a crush on him. We quickly became good and really close frnds. Ppl even started rumors that we were dating but when he heard abt it he hated the rumor. Well, that should had been a sign. but i didn't care of course i loved the rumors.

I'm actually adopted, no my real parents are not dead, they just couldn't afford to raise me. And i trusted my frnds and told them abt it (I only told tow of them let's call the first one and 'A' and the second one 'V'.) A told one of her frnd who was in a different class cuz i think she a had a crush on him and apparently used it as an excuse to talk to him. But I didn't know abt any of this was happening behind my back. Somehow, I still don't know how, one of our teacher came to know abt me being adopted. She literally asked me infront of my whole class abt this. I was actually really shocked that she knew abt this. Anyways I told her the truth and didn't think much abt it. I wasn;t embarassed abt it or anything. On that day my crush was absent.

So, the next day when I came to school everyone from different sections was looking at me idk why. and I was like that's weird. So, my crush and I used arguge a lot like for no reason and for fun. SO, normally e started arguing like any other day but he said something in defence that made my heart break. He said " Atleast I have real parents." I was so shocked man like tf just happened. Who even does that. And it didn't stop there in lunch he and his group from other classes whom i have never even talked made fun of me for being adopted like wow wtf man. This continued for months I hated going to school cuz of their constant bullying. I couldn't even tell my parents cuz that would make the matter worse.

We also had a whatsapp group ( insta wasn't such a thing at that time) So, it was the last day of my school was litterally the happiest than ever!! That my parents went for a farewell party. Well after all the bullying my stupid ass still had a crush on him mann i was immature af. So, that night we were all talking in the group and one of my classmate sent a video and it was really dark in the video cuz it was night so i replied that i couldn't see anything ( as simple as that) So, another classmate replied " Then go get urs eyes checked" I said " bro if ur eyes are so good then tell me what can u see in the video." he said i wasn't his fault i couldn't see ( seriously) that is how the agruement started . and they went all again on bullying me abt being adopted9not only hime the whole gng joined in). So, i felt like i had enough and left the fucking group. But then one of my frnd told me that after i left they were laughing and one of them said " She left like her parents left when she was born" Uhhh. Well, yeah that's it i guess just wanted to get it off my chest. The only good decision I made was not to rejoin the group when my crush insisted. The only time I chose myself. Afterall, life is all abt lessons and i learned mine.

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Hey, so I just wanted to clear something from my mind cuz I have no one else to talk abt it. It was 3 years ago. I have not forgotten even one sec of it. I had a crush on one my classmate. I was new to the class. He was actually pretty famous and a lot of girls I mean  LOT had a crush on him. We quickly became good and really close frnds. Ppl even started rumors that we were dating but when he heard abt it he hated the rumor. Well, that should had been a sign. but i didn't care of course i loved the rumors.

I'm actually adopted, no my real parents are not dead, they just couldn't afford to raise me. And i trusted my frnds and told them abt it (I only told tow of them let's call the first one and 'A' and the second one 'V'.) A told one of her frnd who was in a different class cuz i think she a had a crush on him and apparently used it as an excuse to talk to him. But I didn't know abt any of this was happening behind my back.  Somehow, I still don't know how, one of our teacher came to know abt me being adopted. She literally asked me infront  of my whole class abt this. I was actually really shocked that she knew abt this. Anyways I told her the truth and didn't think much abt it. I wasn;t embarassed abt it or anything. On that day my crush was absent.

So, the next day when I came to school everyone from different sections was looking at me idk why. and I was like that's weird. So, my crush and I used arguge a lot like for no reason and for fun. SO, normally e started arguing like any other day but he said something in defence that made my heart break. He said " Atleast I have real parents." I was so shocked man like tf just happened. Who even does that. And it didn't stop there in lunch he and his group from other classes whom i have never even talked made fun of me for being adopted like wow wtf man.  This continued for months I hated going to school cuz of their constant bullying. I couldn't even tell my parents cuz that would make the matter worse.

We also had a whatsapp group ( insta wasn't such a thing at that time) So, it was the last day of my school was litterally the happiest than ever!! That my parents went for a farewell party. Well after all the bullying my stupid ass still had a crush on him mann i was immature af. So, that night we were all talking in the group and one of my classmate sent a video and it was really dark in the video cuz it was night  so i replied that i couldn't see anything ( as simple as that) So, another classmate replied " Then go get urs eyes checked" I said " bro if ur eyes are so good then tell me what can u see in the video." he said i wasn't his fault i couldn't see ( seriously) that is how the agruement started . and they went all again on bullying me abt being adopted9not only hime the whole gng joined in). So, i felt like i had enough and left the fucking group. But then one of my frnd told me that after i left they were laughing and one of them said " She left like her parents left when she was born" Uhhh. Well, yeah that's it i guess just wanted to get it off my chest. The only good decision I made was not to rejoin the group when my crush insisted. The only time I chose myself. Afterall, life is all abt lessons and i learned mine.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

hope you meet good people <33 
can relate, how petty and trashy people can be esp back when we were kids shitty friend circles. Hoping the best for you