“Hey so how to ask somone out?? I'm 21 this year, never had dating experience cause parents never allowed me to date. I'm old enough now earn a bit, but I just don't know how to ask a girl out?? Like what do you do if you find one attractive? Do you just go up to her and say what?? Is it random insensitive to do so. Somone pls help me out. How to approach a girl who doesn't know you but you like and ask for a date without creeping her out? I don't want to make someone feel bad bcz of me , but I'm also tired of being alone.”

Another soul answered...

Hi! As a heterosexual woman, I’d say the best way for men to approach a girl is with self-confidence. Being secure in who you are and in what you say naturally sparks attraction and interest. I’ve known guys who weren’t particularly attractive, but thanks to their charm and confidence, they had everyone interested in them. Of course, always be respectful—just be yourself, strike up an engaging conversation, ask her questions, and listen to her. As for breaking the ice, it really depends on the context and the setting, but the easiest approach is to make a natural, spontaneous comment about something happening in the moment. Good luck, and don’t stress too much—you’re still young!

Another soul answered...

Hii, I’m a girl nd I’d love to help u. Firstly make sure she doesn’t have a bf. If she doesn’t u can approach her irl, I suggest u not to ask her out right away. If u guys are in clg then talk abt exams, classes or anything related to it. Don’t make her uncomfortable. U don’t need to be the best looking to make a girl fall for u. Just be genuine nd respectful. Lastly don’t overthink it. Just casually talk to her❤️

Another soul answered...

if you find someone in public really attractive and want to ask her out, first gauge if it's a comfortable public space in daylight. do not ask someone out when they're completely alone and there's no one around and it's like, late at night and deserted. Go up to her, say something along the lines of "hey, sorry for approaching you out of nowhere like this but I thought you were really cute. I like your style/earrings/etc. If you're up to it, wanna get coffee sometime?" And if she agrees then ask for her Instagram ID or exchange phone numbers. Make sure to compliment her on something that she must have put effort in, like her styling, her jeans or her accessories, and not something that's part of her body (eg her figure, or even her eyes) as it seems a bit too intimate and creepy for a first conversation. I just want to inform you that most women will probably not agree to go out with you just because you asked her out. They have to find you comfortable, they have to be attracted to you, and they have to know that you're worth the time, which is hard to convey in this way of asking someone out. be prepared to get rejected, and don't take it too personally. Rejection is a part of life! A better way to ask someone out would be to share a common space with them like same club, same classes, same hobbies or something, then figure out if you guys would be compatible. It's not enough to just find a woman attractive, you also have to like her personality. If you like her then ask her out one day after getting to know her for a bit. Good luck soldier!