“Hey! Recently I've started feeling very lonely, I don't really care about romantic relationships nor do I have one but I do have some very special platonic relationships with my friends and sister. But these days after one of my friend got and married (she's pregnant now) she started ignoring me and acting as if we were almost nothing, even if I were to be pathetic and message her from my side she leaves me on seen and let's not even talk about if she gives a duck about what happens with me. Another one of my friend has so much going on in her own life whenever she calls me I'm her unpaid therapist and she barely listens to what I have to say (both of them love me very much a do a lot for me it's not like they don't care of anything but most of the time this is how it is. And then my sister, she and I had a very good bond until recently she went to a solo trip and after returning she started acting very positive (which I support and love for her) but if I'm complaining to her about anything going on in my life she keeps belittling my problems and keeps telling me that my problems are "too small" and I should be grateful. She makes sure to brush my feels off and keeps telling me that she's going through worse. I understand that she doesn't want to destroy this positive personality she worked so hard to build but what about all the time I supported her and fought for her when she was depressed? Now I'm depressed and all she does is compare her problems with mine and tells me to "be grateful" ”
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Someone answered with kindness...
first of all ignore your sister she is trying to belittle you and your problems not everybody understands your problems only you can understand them properly and about your 2nd friend she want to be heard rather than listen your problems I know she might love you but she doesn't give a damn about your life. and last your pregnant friend is going through a lot in her life people cant be the same after they married i hope you find solutions to all your problems and finds friends who listen to your problems
Last thing sometimes try not to be a listener because being a listener is not always helpful in you life hope you understand it. I sincerely hope you have a good life