hey im in in college right now and i like a girl from my class and she know i like her were been talking for sometime but i can't get close of her male best friend .she told me he is her brother and she even tie rakhi to him (its a band which a sister ties on her brothers hand symboliesing a bond of a brother protecting her sister). but deep down i had this feeling that he is just trying to get closer by saying so. and tody one of my friend sat with them in class and he told me that her so called brother was touching her thighs again and again . i didnt felt sad or anything but disgusted by what kind of a man do this. and he is like 23 something while she is 19 same age as me. i was like hell nahhhh.

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hey im in in college right now and i like a girl from  my class and she know i like her were been talking for sometime but i can't get close of her male best friend .she told me he is her brother and she even tie rakhi to him (its a band which a sister ties on her brothers hand symboliesing a bond of a brother protecting her sister). but deep down i had this feeling that he is just trying to get closer by saying so. and tody one of my friend sat with them in class and he told me that her so called brother was touching her thighs again and again . i didnt felt sad or anything but disgusted by what kind of a man do this. and he is like 23 something while she is 19 same age as me. i was like hell nahhhh.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I mean first thing is that's disgusting cuz I don't really understand how these people saying brothers and becoming handy or sleeping in their laps cuz it feels weird to me and that doesn't sit right with me 
And about the girl if u think she is just unconscious to his actions try to give an advice slowly or through her female friends and if not it's idk