“Hey
I m female and i live in a joint family ,have uncles and brothers and grandparents, so the problem is every female member of my ho.e is jealous of me because I m most loved child among the male members ,I get all the attention and care , and I understand what the female members feel , but I m not at fault , its not my fault that all my brothers and uncles loves me , they get jealous of me because of this even they openly say curel words for me , I was not bothered by this for a long time but now its problematic because I have to live with them but all of them glare at me like I have stolen something, yes I get exceptional attention thats weird and sweet at the same time but that's not my fault
I dont what to do but I just don't want to live in a house where my own people hate me”
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Someone answered with kindness...
We’ll be yourself, and do things that make you happy, try to not pay attention to them. And be kind, but ofcourse you can’t change someone’s mindset overnight and it’s not your job too.
I think you should work and move out if you can and want too. I have lived thru a similar situation and now I live far away; and when I think back; I only think of the good memories because that is what I wanna remember because they were still my family and I chose to love them even after everything. But don’t even try to prove anything to anyone, focus on yourself, there is so much goodness in the world to look forward too