Hey! Hii so I'm really confused with my life, I don't feel the rush and energy towards anything...even if I do for a min it goes away with my procrastination. I want to change but I don't know is it that I'm scared of failure or is it that if I succeed I can't be idle as I am right now. How do people find what they want to do with their life? What are the things that keeps one motivated?

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Hello stranger, i'll be direct and harsh, first of all don't chase motivation, chase consistancy,, motivation comes and goes it's a feeling you can feel a single feeling all the time so it's fine if you don't feel motivated enough to do something, 
what you need to do right now is chase consistancy , build one habit and do it every single day consistantaly , after doing it consistantely for 10-15 day, look into mirror and say,"i did it for continousely 15 days, i'm proud of myself, let's target 30 days now", then do it for 30 days , this will create 2 things, a habit to be consistant and 2nd self confidance that yeah you can do too.

now about confusion and all,, right now you are confused because you don't have disepline, don't take it lightly or don't laugh,, the thing is you need to go to the gym.

Gym not only creates a good looking body it also creates a good looking mind, it adds discipline , good habits, it will force you to take care of yourself,, one thing i need to warn about is when you start attending gym, you'll find different type of people, listen to them but do not follow there advice, notice there body they have good physique like a bodybuilder but your goal is not to be a bodybuilder, you are here to build a asthatic body and a habit, discipline and be a better person,

good luck stranger, you challenged yourself and you want to be better is a sign that you will be better one day, you just needed a direction, save this or took a screenshot of it, i'm proud of you, good bye

-Sidd.