Someone once asked...

“her parents found out about our relationship then they told my parents. all the taunting, shouting and fighting is now over. we're separated(me and her), but that's not the issue, it's that my parents think i'm a useless son, who wants to do nothing much with his life and just wants to fk around, but that's not who i am....atp i'm just tired trying to convince people who i really am...i've given up”

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Someone answered with kindness...

you don't have to convince anybody who you are. even if they're your parents and misunderstand you. it happens. focus on doing good yourself. satisfy yourself before satisfying others--it's not about ego, it's about having sane priorities. when you do good, people eventually see it without having to convince them.

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Another soul answered...

Stop caring what other people think. Just work on yourself. Learn some skills and start building things and dont give up. Stop being a useless prick and man the fuck up. Put the discipline in, stick with something and become a great man, and stop wining like a little bitch.