“Hello,
I'm in my last year of highschool right now. The previous year of October, I had a huge crush on a guy from another section but same grade. I really don't know why I had a huge crush on him, he is super sweet , very kind and an introvert. One of my friend is his classmate and I told her and earlier this year (jan 2026) me and my crush started talking (I dm'ed him on Instagram 😭😭). Anyways my friend and a few others planned a hangout with me and crush (a movie date ig) but I ended up cancelling last minute cause my grandma died. I let my crush know that and this guy replied with "Opps" and I was sooo sad about and filled with grief I genuinely just decided to stop talking to him from that day onwards. He did say sorry but 2 DAYS later. Anyways 3 months go by of me ignoring him. He then tells my friend that he wants her help to ask my forgiveness, (issue is idk how he asked but wtv u get the idea) anyways I decided yk wat let's just do it and then we started talking more. (Note that his younger sister joined our school this year). Anyways literally after a month, I find out that his younger sister is going around letting everyone from my grade know that I have a crush on him and I obvi didn't like it cause why bring up something that happened months ago. My dumb ass decided to add more fuel to the fire by giving them chocolates (this is purely cause my dad came back from a foreign country which is also the same contry their mother works at). Anyways his sister first told my best friend's friends about it. My bsf got to know about it through them and I was soo shocked as to how does his sister know. Anyways my bsf made her friends ask 2 questions:
1. Who told her about the crush.
2. Does HE like her
And obvi I only wanted to know the first question's answer. After 2 weeks, we find out that she apparently figured it out through my body language and she has known this since the day I've had a crush on him. (But his sister wasn't even in our school so how would she notice my body language). Another 2 weeks later I asked my bsf to let me know the 2nd question's answer cause he had been being super friendly then. She says that apparently he told his sister:
"Tell her that ill let her know during farewell party. Tell her to study and I also want to study"
And this absolutely crushed me. Cause why are u trying to lead me on until the last day everyone will see eachother?? Why can't u just say "no" now?? I don't think he ever liked me but I do not understand why he has to lead me on. He is also keeps boasting to my friend (his classmate) about how he is a one woman kind of guy and would doo everything for his future wife blah blah blah but if I'm not the person u wanna treat like so, why even bother leading me on??”