Someone once asked...

“Hello, I'm 23 and still virgin. I really want to have sexual intercourse. Reasons 1. Fomo amongst my friends who are already in relationship 2. Self itch to try many things out. Soln ?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Well... The first problem is your reasons. Sexual intercourse should come naturally. Notice how your friends are in a relationship? These things come with time, trust, love, and deep connection. Sex is one of the most vulnerable acts you can ever do. During these acts you are connecting with your partner and showing yourself at your most vulnerable. Any form of sexual intercourse should be seen as something special and deeply personal. If you truly want to experience sexual intercourse you must find someone you trust and are willing to be vulnerable around.

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Another soul answered...

Sex isn’t something you should rush into. There are a lot of people who regret their first intercourse experience just because they rushed into doing it with someone for the sake of curiosity and fomo. I understand most people around this age will start to fantasise about it but I would suggest finding the right person to do it with should be your first priority. The person first then the intercourse.

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Another soul answered...

Get a lover or get married and do it

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