Someone once asked...

“He kept proposing , i kept rejecting . But this year he proposed me for marriage and at this point i thought since i have a soft corner for him let me try. We then started to talk 3 to 4 months as he is not in my country we couldn’t meet or anything . I didn’t get that love feeling . I feel so guilty about it because he is a green forest .he genuinely cares about me and wants me to grow in life too. I need that mindset in my guy but I’m not attracted to him . What is wrong with me ????”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Nothing is wrong with you it's just a feeling that you don't want to hurt his feelings but in this way you are still gaving him a hope to carryon his feelings for you. In this case the best thing you can do is talk and clear the things between you to so that both you can move on.

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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet

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Another soul answered...

I don’t have feelings for anyone else too. I thought since i like his mindset … i could develop physical attraction too . Maybe it could have happened if we met regularly in real rather than messages or calls

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Another soul answered...

You might have feelings for someone else or maybe you don’t got something that you wanted to have in that guy ntg wrong with you I feel like it is quite normal….

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Another soul answered...

Dear it's okay to feel that for a person and listen to your heart do what it says and tell him how you feel about this relationship he deserves to know and he cares for you as you says then he will understand you if you can't be in relationship and you want someone like why don't you start your relationship with that guy as a friend and if your says that he is the onethen be together