“Has anyone ever gone through something like this? It’s been almost a week since my relationship ended, and I honestly don’t know how to deal with it. We were together for three years, and now I have to get used to living without someone who was once such a big part of my everyday life.
I was always the one reaching out, trying to make plans, asking to talk, and hoping for just a little more effort. I often felt unwanted, but I kept trying because I genuinely loved her. And now, despite everything that happened, I miss her more than I can explain.
The days are somewhat manageable, but the nights are unbearable. I lie awake thinking about her, wondering how things got this way and how someone I loved so deeply could walk away like this. Everyone tells me to focus on myself and move on, but I don’t even know where to begin. It’s painful knowing that someone can hurt you so much and you can still miss them this badly.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Hi..as someone who broke up 4 years ago, I get you. I know things can be difficult and its still difficult for me sometimes as I really loved him and he was my first. But just don't neglect yourself..focus on yourself even if it takes a lot. I have been there and I regret not doing this sooner..If you don't focus on yourself, it'll be very hard in the coming years as you'll start losing yourself in the process of letting them go..so don't do this please...show up for yourself even though it hurts..i know you can do this!🩷
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Another soul answered...
Trust me u will find smone better
If not a few days
In a couple of yrs u wouldnt be thinking of her as much as u do now
This too shall pass
I get how it feels to lose sucha big part of ur life
Keep urself busy n shut out ur thoughts
I get the feeling of emptiness
But trust me
There's a lot more to life than a girl
So idt u shud fuss over smone who dint even care enough to make efforts n make u stay
Hope u make it :)