“from the last 2 weeks my gf has been a little distant and me being a rookie to relationships, i started overthinking and said some really harsh things to her, like real harsh. anyways we started talking again but after 2-3 days she started ignoring me again, even on my birthday she didnt talked to me properly. its not her fault too, she is studying for medical school and trying really hard to get in and i support her fully but the main problem arises is the time difference between our countries, we met in france for the first time, she was on a trip and she went to algeria again and me after completing my internship came back to india and now our time gap is 4.5 hours and for these two whole weeks we havent talked properly, doesnt share our pictures, dont do voice or video calls, i dont write poems for her anymore, its been just really a depressing period atleast for me. i overthink a lot, i have read so many books but when it comes to applying their concept in real life, i just fail. she could only reply me when its 10-11pm in algeria and by that time i sleep coz my work starts early. last night we made a movie date plan coz we both had off days but i fell asleep, i just wasnt able to keep up. i again started sending her those “toxic bf” texts but then i realized and deleted them, instead sent some comforting texts but i havent gotten any reply from her, infact we havent even spoken for continuous 30 mins once this last week and she is never clear about any of her emotions and what she is thinking, i am just confused, also she is online all the time but only replies me at fixed time even tho she knows i sleep by then. i tried to break up with her but she is never clear about it too. i am not a strong guy, i just cant be masculine boyfriend she deserves, i have seen many youtube videos, podcasts, read a few books but everyone said different things, i know i have intellect of my own and i should think by myself instead of some douche bags online, but listen one of the online douche bags ‘i need your help, i am feeling really lonely, i just dont know what to do. plesse help me’”
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Someone answered with kindness...
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