from the last 2 weeks my gf has been a little distant and being a rookie to relationships, i started overthinking and sad some really harsh things to her, like real harsh. anyways we started talking again but after 2-3 days she started ignoring me again, even on my birthday she didnt talked to me properly. its not her fault too, she is studying for medical school amd trying really hard to get in but the main problem arises is the time difference between our countries, we met in france for the first time, but she was on a trip and she went to algeria again and me after completing my internship came back to india and now our time gap is 4.5 hours and these two whole weeks we dont talk properly, doesnt share our pictures, dont do voice or video calls, i dont write poems for her anymore, its been just really a depressing period atleast for me. i overthink a lot, i have read so many books but when it comes to applying their concept in real life, i just fail. she could only reply me when its 10-11pm in algeria and by that time i sleep coz my work starts early. last night we made a movie date plan coz we both had off days but i fell asleep, i just wasnt able to keep up. i again started sending her “toxic bf” texts but then i realized and deleted them, instead sent some comforting texts but i havent gotten any reply from her, infact we havent spoken even once last week and she is never clear about any of her emotions and what she is thinking, i am just confused, also she is online all the time but only replies me at fixed time even tho she knows i sleep by then. i tried to break up with her but she is never clear about it too. i am not a strong guy, i just cant be masculine boyfriend she deserves, i have seen many youtube videos, podcasts, read a few books but everyone said different things, i know i have intellect of my own and i should think by myself instead of some douche bags online, but listen one of the online douche bag, ‘i need your help, i am feeling really lonely, i just dont know what to do. plesse help me’ Thanks
also if you are okay, please talk on insta. this is my id- @sparsh.kd
only if you want, no pressure

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from the last 2 weeks my gf has been a little distant and being a rookie to relationships, i started overthinking and sad some really harsh things to her, like real harsh. anyways we started talking again but after 2-3 days she started ignoring me again, even on my birthday she didnt talked to me properly. its not her fault too, she is studying for medical school amd trying really hard to get in but the main problem arises is the time difference between our countries, we met in france for the first time, but she was on a trip and she went to algeria again and me after completing my internship came back to india and now our time gap is 4.5 hours and these two whole weeks we dont talk properly, doesnt share our pictures, dont do voice or video calls, i dont write poems for her anymore, its been just really a depressing period atleast for me. i overthink a lot, i have read so many books but when it comes to applying their concept in real life, i just fail. she could only reply me when its 10-11pm in algeria and by that time i sleep coz my work starts early. last night we made a movie date plan coz we both had off days but i fell asleep, i just wasnt able to keep up. i again started sending her “toxic bf” texts but then i realized and deleted them, instead sent some comforting texts but i havent gotten any reply from her, infact we havent spoken even once last week and she is never clear about any of her emotions and what she is thinking, i am just confused, also she is online all the time but only replies me at fixed time even tho she knows i sleep by then. i tried to break up with her but she is never clear about it too. i am not a strong guy, i just cant be masculine boyfriend she deserves, i have seen many youtube videos, podcasts, read a few books but everyone said different things, i know i have intellect of my own and i should think by myself instead of some douche bags online, but listen one of the online douche bag, ‘i need your help, i am feeling really lonely, i just dont know what to do. plesse help me’ Thanks 
also if you are okay, please talk on insta. this is my id- @sparsh.kd    
only if you want, no pressure

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Hi as someone who also have dealt with a gf whos feelings are never understandable at all i can tell u this be calm my brother the last thing u want to do is piss her off more and create an even bigger gap between u too within time everything will be clear for now protect ur peace do stuff that u love go put more hangout with freinds but also do not stop ur routines with her and always be mature