“For context Got Laid off about a month back, fortunately the org gave me 90 days to look for another role within the org, just started out my career (1.5 yrs of exp) so just been really hard to cope w everything, management says it was not performance which i believe because i was one of team’s top performer, had a decent relationship w my team and team lead but as the news broke they just removed me from all groups no one reached out that kinda made me feel bad because i covered work for them, helped them when they needed it and did overtime whenever i was asked.
Im young (21) but idk something just changed in me since that day, i just dont like anything anymore fav food just tastes meh, tried going out alone, w family and friends its fine till im engaged wi tbh something one moment of silence and thoughts are going 1000km/h. Tried doing everything i like but nothing seems to be doing it for me, also i dont leave my room all day i just sit on my bed, watch shows, apply jobs everything. Idk what’s going on w me tried talking to people but ig im not good at explaining they just dont understand the situation im in, idk if these 1200 words are enough to explain what i feel rn but idk i just would like to feel better somehow.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I haven't experienced what you have, but I know it's rough. If you're feeling like this and you just don't want to leave your room I feel that completely, and I have felt that way too. The best advice I can give you is just to bring it to God. And before you just say, "Oh, it's another Christian guy" and just move on, He can actually help you through this. Trust me on this, it's the best thing to do in one of these situations rather than just shutting yourself alone in your room, and not receiving help whatsoever. Good luck on getting a new job, and I hope you start feeling a lot better