Someone once asked...

“Due to seating arrangements I had to sit somewhere else while my frnds sat together they became frnds with others in their grp , I feel like they have been growing distant , its just me approaching them when I go they will talk to me normally but if I dont approach them they wont come to me it feels one sided . The ppl I sit with are nice but I dont feel like I belong there , they are my frnds but I know I am not their priority yk like friendly but not really close. I dont know I dont think I have anyone left to call my close frnd , and I think if I speak up I will loose whatever is left with them”

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Someone answered with kindness...

The exact same thing happened to me bro and I was really sad until I found new friends, the ones who never made me feel alone

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Another soul answered...

I have a somewhat same experience (with different circumstances tho)from when I was in highschool. I'm 21 now and looking back, I truly believe that was a blessing in disguise, because situations like that just drain you- feeling like you have to fight for someone's attention or love. So I would say give it one last shot and by that I mean talk to them about how you're feeling and I promise you you'll just know what to do after their reaction. If you dk here's sth; If they apologize and you feel like everything's back to normal then good. If they tell you no and make you feel like it's in your head,let them go; it's hard but think of it like having a TV that doesn't work taking up space for what could be the space of a new functioning one. That is genuinely what's happening here,bc I can tell you with certainty you have your people. For me I had so many ppl to hangout with me,bt they never felt like actual connections and now I don't have half that number and none of them are in my life but I feel so fulfilled because the friends I have now would do anything for me and I don't have a shred of doubt about that so that's how easy friendships are(especially female ones bc well that's what I have) so anything other than that is not for you. I'm sorry for how long this is lol. But yeah, good luck, you're beautiful and cool! Mwah!