“Can anyone help me please🙏🏻
“I am 23 year old girl from India, and I feel like I'm stuck in life and I'm employed but my job is WFH only, so I don't go out unless it's absolutely necessary and my parents are strict and toxic, I was in a relationship few years back and my parents found out typical things that happens after happened and I'm not dating that guy anymore, ever since that my relationship with my parents changed, i cannot see them the same anymore. I'm mostly a obedient kid whatever my parents say I'll do, i don't oppose or do anything to them. All my life I've live my life the way they wanted me to live but choosing something for myself for the first time they cannot accept it and suddenly I'm a B. It's like they love me as long as I love under their terms and conditions, if i don't then I'm bad daughter and all my life that I've spent to make them happy means nothing. Ever since I realised this I've maintaining my distance with them too and this causes problem in our house every single day, and they tell me to "get out of their house if I can't act how they want" almost every single day. I can not handle the mental pressure anymore I decide to leave my house and live in pg. I'm strong with that decision but at the same time I'm questioning every single thing my life and if I made the right choice. Because everything aside they're still my parents and I'm still their daughter even though we show hate to eachother all the time deep inside we all know i love them and I know they love me and that's making it hard for me to make a decision. I can't leave but I definitely cannot stay either. What should I do””
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Someone answered with kindness...
Your mental health and peace is the utmost important thing.. you are able to live independently. So enjoy your life they way you like.
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Another soul answered...
I'm genuinely sorry to hear that,and happy you changed your surroundings
It's is honestly the best thing you did for yourself and yeah i know you feel wrong now but girl feeling bad and hurt is better than feeling suffocated in your own home as for the parental bond it never really dies...
I suggest don't cut them off,talk to them over the phone, be there when its necessary,check on them whenever you feel it and
most importantly don't feel guilty for choosing yourself,your peace, your sanity
I mostly feel they are typical old thoughts and opinions kind of parents hence the differences
Hole it helps🫶🏻