Before anything I'd like to share one thing, in last 4 years of my collage life, none of my friends wished me on my birthday. No cake was cut. Only when they came to know that my birthday was yesterday all of'em were like " Bro you did not talked about it cause you did not wanted to give party to us. ".

I am in the final year of my collage life. In first year wew were a group of 15 friends and slowly as 2nd year came I was with a whole another group and that older group broke apart. In first year I had a good friend but his ego ate him up, I stopped talking to him after 1st year. Now, in my new friend circle one of'em was a good guy ( I thought so ). He was good with English and I thought that if I became friends with him my english would get better. SO I started talking to him, and we became good friends, and then I joined his friend group. Now as years passes one thing was obvious that he only thinks about himself and no one else. Now, 3rd year comes, I still thought he was a good friend rather than knowing that he was just using everyone around him. During every event in my collage none of my friends from this group invited me. Like if they are going somewhere they just go and forgets about me. I kept coming from behind for months but I was fed up. Then came the main event of our collage, I was happy and ready to participate in every event but they made groups in themselves not including me. I was sad but I kept myself up and was there in every "solo" events. That day we came back to have lunch, I said wait for me I'll be back in 2 minutes just have to take my phone form the room and when I came back all of'em were gone. I cried that day. For the first time in last 10 years I cried saying " Why no one wants me as their friend, why can't I be someone's close? ".

Then came final year I stopped talking to them as all of'em were just too negative about everything. I tried focusing on my preparation for higher studies and placements. Then one day they removed me fro the group, I saw but did not react. I was like ok remove me I'm fine. But then talked like " He is not talking to us that is why I removed him, as maybe he will talk about our private chats to someone else. ". I was like bro we were close friends for 2 years and still you think I'll snitch? And remember this is the same guy who was a good friend of mine form second year. I healped him in everything, yet he only used my skills.

I think maybe some people get out of collage finding friends who will help them in future but I'll get out alone and I am fine with that. At least I am not going to have fake friends.

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Before anything I'd like to share one thing, in last 4 years of my collage life, none of my friends wished me on my birthday. No cake was cut. Only when they came to know that my birthday was yesterday all of'em were like " Bro you did not talked about it cause you did not wanted to give party to us. ".

I am in the final year of my collage life. In first year wew were a group of 15 friends and slowly as 2nd year came I was with a whole another group and that older group broke apart. In first year I had a good friend but his ego ate him up, I stopped talking to him after 1st year. Now, in my new friend circle one of'em was a good guy ( I thought so ). He was good with English and I thought that if I became friends with him my english would get better. SO I started talking to him, and we became good friends, and then I joined his friend group. Now as years passes one thing was obvious that he only thinks about himself and no one else. Now, 3rd year comes, I still thought he was a good friend rather than knowing that he was just using everyone around him. During every event in my collage none of my friends from this group invited me. Like if they are going somewhere they just go and forgets about me. I kept coming from behind for months but I was fed up. Then came the main event of our collage, I was happy and ready to participate in every event but they made groups in themselves not including me. I was sad but I kept myself up and was there in every "solo" events. That day we came back to have lunch, I said wait for me I'll be back in 2 minutes just have to take my phone form the room and when I came back all of'em were gone. I cried that day. For the first time in last 10 years I cried saying " Why no one wants me as their friend, why can't I be someone's close? ".

Then came final year I stopped talking to them as all of'em were just too negative about everything. I tried focusing on my preparation for higher studies and placements. Then one day they removed me fro the group, I saw but did not react. I was like ok remove me I'm fine. But then talked like " He is not talking to us that is why I removed him, as maybe he will talk about our private chats to someone else. ". I was like bro we were close friends for 2 years and still you think I'll snitch? And remember this is the same guy who was a good friend of mine form second year. I healped him in everything, yet he only used my skills.

I think maybe some people get out of collage finding friends who will help them in future but I'll get out alone and I am fine with that. At least I am not going to have fake friends.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

bhai it is what it is ,its the condition of many guys out there, you are not alone. just try to improve , upgrade yourself in all aspects .
and one another thing its 'college' not 'collage' ,i know english might be your 2,3rd langauge but still /or you might have written it by mistake