“Around six or seven months ago, I joined a random music GC, and it turned out to be one of the best things I've done. I'm a 19-year-old BSc Computer Science student, and since I have quite a bit of free time, I spend a lot of it there. I've made so many good friends and become much more confident, expressive and knowledgeable because of this GC.There's a 26-year-old guy in the group whom I've grown really close to. We both like each other, but things have been complicated lately. He's been acting distant and dry, and we're slowly drifting apart. He also gets jealous when I talk to another guy in the GC, although he's currently flirting with another girl and says they're just friends.The other guy and I get along really well. He's genuinely my type, but he has a bit of a playboy reputation, so I'm not sure about getting attached to him. Besides, both guys are good friends, and I don't want to create any complications between them. The new guy doesn't even know about my connection with the first one.I'm confused about how to handle this. I don't want to lose a genuine friendship, get caught up in unnecessary attachments, or ruin the friendship between these two guys. Most importantly, I don't want to leave the GC because it has genuinely brought so much positivity into my life. What should I do? Should I distance myself from both and let things happen naturally?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Yeah I feel like distance yourself from both and let things happen naturally , the 26yo seems like a lwk red flag ngl , the other one not so sure though