Any tips to find a a friend that will be there always, comfort me when I need it, and just basically be the truest meaning of a BFF? I always get easily attached to people and just end up hurt when they leave me for someone else or they get bored, and I'm getting better at just accepting that but still it does hurt. Please, even the smallest bits of advice would help me! :) lovexxx

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

first of i would loveee to be your friend you genuinely sound like an amazing person...it is important to cut off ties with people or friends who drain your mental energy, or who dont help you bring the best version of yourself . if u want to try to make new friends i would suggest you try to attend workshops such as art, wood carving pottery, gym membership or pilates or whatever sport your into...if ur into books you can join a book club because you guys have something it common to discuss which cn grow your relation and it also gives u a easoon to follow up on on another...giving back to the communtity or charity by doing this you are more fullfilled...you will also get to learn new thing by doing these...also for a lasting frienship it is important to be the most genuine version and have good energy so people would like to be around you more often, and don't look down on yourself, because your  presence matters and has a lot of value