Someone once asked...

“Am I ready for a relationship? I genuely crave love and affection, and I haven't experienced being in a real relationship. I always hear stuff that "you need to love yourself before you love someone" but i know a lot of ppl who hates themselfs are in relationships and I really don't get it. Am I the problem or is it just hard to find nice guys (who aren't taken)? I also fear that if I finally manage to find someone I would only love the feeling of being loved instead of the person himself. But maybe not. Should I just.. wait for someone to come, or do I need to work on myself first?”

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

I feel exactly the same. Everyone my age are married with kids and I'm still stuck like that. i’m gonna show you with a positive message that believe me from the point of universe that this rough face that we are going through is temporary and it is gonna end by this year and next year you’re gonna find true love and everything that you have lost and I swear to God that you wanna find your twin flame. Xoxo, Spaddu

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Another soul answered...

I guess we should keep working on ourselves first , mentally, physically , emotionally and be ready if someone comes .....not pushing ourselves too much about it but if we find a person who we find attractive it's okay to approach them .....that quote that loving ourselves meant "people who don't know how to handle themselves,so how can we expect them to handle another person"....loving ourselves means becoming best version of ourselves!....so yeah love yourself first but if someone is there that you find attractive go on... approach him,get to know him.

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