Someone once asked...

“after we broke up he came to apologies but when i asked him what do you want the result of this conversation to be he goes like .. whatever you want it to be and i went like lets be co-exsisting ppl and he went like fine.. after the whole talk we kept making eye contacts .. my friends also cought him looking at me but.. he never came back to fix things right..we broke up months ago... we dated for 6 months and yet bro choose his ego over me?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

thats exactly why u deserve a better communicator as a partner

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Another soul answered...

I can't say that I've been in this kind of situation at all, and I wasn't an active or present person during this whole situation. Take my advice to the greater sort. When two people are together, even if it's in the developing stages or in a very settled, very mutual understanding part of relationships, these things happen. The most important thing that needs to be done at the moment is to understand the situation at your own level. Don't go and do anything that you feel the others are making you do or are making you insist on doing. Think of what you want the end situation to be and what the consequences of your decision can be, because even though healing needs time, the wound will still be there. If you don't heal yourself first, that wound may be a painful reminder of what happened and may even scar the already fragile relationship that you two have now even more. I think it's better to talk as normal as existing people, as you said, and don't try to think about his ego. Just think about yourself at this moment, because the moment you need to prioritise yourself is now. People come and go, but at the end, it's your own soul that is with you. I would like to end my thoughts with the saying: please focus on yourself, make yourself happy, and be well.

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